@David-TP thank you for your support I disabled upnp as suggested I found no port forwarding and when cheking the router only open ports were 80 443 1900 and 20001 but got flaggged and blacklisted...

I keep getting messages from org called spamhous that says something in my network is part of a proxy network sending spam directly to the internet using port 25 . I can not find this devide have...